Stop avoiding sex. Start wanting it.
Become a Catholic Wife who loves sex.
The group coaching program for Catholic wives who are ready to increase desire and actually experience pleasure.
We begin August 3!
It happened again...
You had a crazy day and finally you can relax.
Your husband walks in and comes close to embrace you
You shy away and keep working on dinner.
He tries to kiss you several times all evening, he's extra handsy
You know what that means...
He heads upstairs and you're left dreading what is coming.
You feel guilty.
You don't want to. Nothing in you desires this.
You know that look he's going to have on his face when you walk in the bedroom.
His desire for it feels so carnal, so base.
Sex itself feels so...not holy
You're supposed to like this.
Sex is supposed to be easy, enjoyable, pleasurable even...
Good marriages don't struggle with sex.
It feels like something is wrong with you...
You don't want to admit it, but...
You're repulsed by your husband's desire for sex
Sex feels like a chore
You'd rather just not have sex again, then it wouldn't be an issue anymore!
You're afraid of sex
You hate sex
You don't feel normal. Because normal marriages don't struggle with sex
The real problem isn't low libido
It's that no one ever taught you how female desire actually works
It's time to become a Catholic Wife who loves sex.
Imagine this...
It's Tuesday night and your husband moves toward you for a kiss...
You don’t tense when your husband touches you.
You don’t mentally brace yourself for the possibility of sex tonight.
You feel present in your body, and you're open to whatever comes next.
You're confident in what turns you on and how to get there, so you're not worried about your husband initiating.
In fact, you respond to his kiss with a deeper kiss and a nod to the bedroom.
You have sex not because you should, but because you want to.
You feel closer to your husband, not resentful or pressured.
And for the first time, you think:
“Oh. This is what they meant when they said sex is amazing.”
This is your future.
You've tried couples therapy, reading marriage books, having sex out of duty, waiting for desire to show up, getting your hormones tested, supplements, date nights, ignoring the problems and hoping for the best...
This program isn't those things
Want it and Enjoy it is a 100% Catholic practical program to give you real changes quickly.
It's not more vague theology and encouragment
When you ask a question, we'll dig deep into your specific situation and you'll come out with practical next steps to implement in your marriage.
This program is the Catholic answer women have been missing
What you'll learn
The Want it and Enjoy it 5 part framework
What the Church actually says about sex
The Church is not against sex. You'll embrace the beauty of sex and intimacy through the lens of the Catechism, Magisterial Documents, and Theology of the Body. You'll explore how seeking out pleasure isn't selfish, it's actually a way of participating more fully in the act. You'll see how desire for sex isn't base or animalistic, but a beautiful design of God to unite husband and wife.
Mindset
Negative thoughts about sex are wreaking havoc in your sex life. Learn how to identify negative thoughts, replace them with positive thoughts, and decide ahead of time what you want to be thinking. You'll be able to manage your mind during sex so it doesn't wander back to the to-do list mid-foreplay.
Advanced Sex-Ed
You had Sex-ed in in High School, but it didn't actually prepare you for good, pleasurable, married sex. Understanding arousal and anatomy at an advanced level will lay the foundation for sex that you not only like, but crave.
Communication
Sex is HARD to talk about. Use the guided tools and scripts to walk through the 7 essential conversations every Catholic couple needs to have about sex. Gain confidence in expressing your needs and desires without fights.
Pleasure and Orgasm
Learn the skill of orgasm (yes it's a learnable skill!) and the art of receiving to finally experience the pleasure available to you in the act.
What’s Included?
Complete Course Library (with lifetime access)
A step-by-step program to help you want sex more, enjoy it more, and rebuild your entire relationship with sex so it becomes something you look forward to instead of avoid, dread, or just get through.
8 Weeks of Live Group Coaching
Real support while you implement what you’re learning so you don’t have to figure this out alone. Anonymous question submission and call recordings available.
Weekly coaching calls are Wednesdays at 1 pm and run every Wednesday from August 5 - September 23
Unlimited Q&A
Ask as many questions as you want with the anonymous submission form and get them answered in video format each week.
Guided Workbook
A practical workbook to help you apply everything you learn. Identify your biggest desire blockers, reflect on patterns in your marriage and intimacy, and create an action plan that fits your season of life
Bonus Resources
Catholic Sex Positions Guide
Tasteful ideas for variety, comfort, connection, and intimacy within Catholic teaching.
Getting in the Mood Guide
Practical help for women who struggle to mentally shift into desire, especially when tired, touched out, or overwhelmed.
What others have said:
Kristen and her husband went from feeling so lost to feeling confident!
Elizabeth was super cautious going in but was so relived to learn the course was super Catholic and everything in line with Church teaching!
Brianna went from being fine never having sex again to actually wanting sex!
Mindy went from frustrated with orgasm to actually understanding them and enjoying them!
Patricia loved learning everything and applying it with her husband (and wished she had it sooner!)
Chelsea still learned things after 20 years of marriage!
Monica went from thinking sex is just for men to realizing her pleasure mattered and was a good thing to pursue!
If you're unsatisfied with your sex life in any way and ready to do the work, please join this program. It has been so good for my marriage. My husband has noticed the changes too. I went from never wanting sex again to planning for it, on purpose, twice in one day! The support and understanding you receive in this program is truly life changing.
I loved the support and sense of community. I loved bringing faith into it as well - it has been a bit weird for me in the past to have God and sex in the same conversation so it was just helpful I think to have other Catholic women who also struggle with sex and talk about it.
Before the course, I felt so inadequate. I desired sex, but not as much as I thought I should. I felt like I was the one who was holding us back from having great sex. I thought the course would have good information that might help other women, but it wouldn't make anything better for me. I really thought I was too broken to be fixed. Now, instead of inadequate and discouraged, I feel so hopeful.
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Jessica A
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
I appreciated knowing that I wasn't alone in my struggles. That there are many other women out there who are struggling with very similar, if not the exact same things, and that we can support one another in our journey toward fullness in the catholic church through our vocation in the sacrament of marriage! It was also empowering to feel seen in my specific struggles, and to receive the support necessary to help make the changes needed in my marriage.
Worth every penny. Thank you for your work in this area, I would not have ever thought I would participate in something like this but after starting to listen to your podcast and getting the emails, it was definitely placed on my heart to join. It has been so helpful and eye opening! Thank you for the encouragement and reassurance that we are not broken, we are not alone, and we can improve our situations!
My husband was so enthusiastic I join and check it out and I didn't know if one more thing on my plate in this season was a good idea. I am so thankful he encouraged me. We have seen growth in our conversations, sex life and holiness over the course of the program and feel like we have barely scratched the surface when it came to videos and extras offered.
Monica
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Christy
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Go for it. You can't afford not to invest in it.
There is something for everyone to learn
It changed my entire perspective on sex and helped my marriage so much. I would tell [a woman interested in the program] it is worth every penny.
Lillian
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Emma
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
If you're unsatisfied with your sex life in any way and ready to do the work, please join this program. It has been so good for my marriage. My husband has noticed the changes too. I went from never wanting sex again to planning for it, on purpose, twice in one day! The support and understanding you receive in this program is truly life changing.
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
I loved the support and sense of community. I loved bringing faith into it as well - it has been a bit weird for me in the past to have God and sex in the same conversation so it was just helpful I think to have other Catholic women who also struggle with sex and talk about it.
Jessica A
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
Before the course, I felt so inadequate. I desired sex, but not as much as I thought I should. I felt like I was the one who was holding us back from having great sex. I thought the course would have good information that might help other women, but it wouldn't make anything better for me. I really thought I was too broken to be fixed. Now, instead of inadequate and discouraged, I feel so hopeful.
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
I appreciated knowing that I wasn't alone in my struggles. That there are many other women out there who are struggling with very similar, if not the exact same things, and that we can support one another in our journey toward fullness in the catholic church through our vocation in the sacrament of marriage! It was also empowering to feel seen in my specific struggles, and to receive the support necessary to help make the changes needed in my marriage.
Monica
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
There is something for everyone to learn
Emma
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
My husband was so enthusiastic I join and check it out and I didnt know if one more thing on my plate in this season was a good idea. I am so thankful he encouraged me. We have seen growth in our conversations, sex life and holiness over the course of the program and feel like we have barely scratched the surface when it came to videos and extras offered.
Anonymous
2026 Want it and Enjoy it participant
This is for you if...
✔ You're a married Catholic women who loves her husband
✔ You don't enjoy sex, but you want to
✔ You want to want sex more without feeling guilty about it
✔ You want pleasure without compromising your faith
✔ You are tired of pretending sex doesn’t matter
This is not for you if...
✖ You are looking for explicit sexual content or graphic instruction
(This is thoughtful, respectful, and faith-aligned.)
✖ You want quick tips or techniques without understanding what is actually blocking desire
(This work goes deeper than surface-level fixes.)
✖ You are not open to learning within the framework of Catholic teaching on marriage and sex
✖ You are hoping someone will give you a script to follow without doing any personal reflection or practice
✖ You are satisfied with sex feeling “fine” or something to get through, and are not interested in changing that
Want it and Enjoy it is currently closed for Enrollment
Join the waitlist to be notified the next time we open Want it and Enjoy it for enrollment
Sex was a huge hurdle my husband and I had to overcome early in our marriage, and we had no where to turn with the questions we had.
Birth control, vaginismus, and an inability to communicate about sex made the first few months of our marriage truly horrible.
We tried to talk about it but that created resentment and fighting.
We tried researching things on our own, but it wasn't clear what was in line with church teaching and what wasn't.
Then we tried to just ignore it and hope it got better.
It didn't.
It took years of deep research, hundreds of books, becoming certified NFP instructors, 40+ hours of masters level courses, and earning a certificate in the fundamentals of sex therapy before things really started to click and our sex life became amazing.
Now I create authentically Catholic resources for women on sex and intimacy rooted in Theology of the Body. I combine up to date sexology with church teaching to provide you with practical sex support that is 100% in line with the Catholic Church.
I want you to have the same transformation I did without the years of pain and full on masters level research.
I want you to have an amazing marriage and an awesome sex life!
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this program faithful to Catholic Church teaching?
Yes. This program is fully grounded in Catholic teaching on marriage and sexuality, including the goodness of the marital act, the unitive and procreative meaning of sex, and the dignity of the female body. Nothing in this program contradicts Church teaching. In fact, many women find this work helps them finally understand why the Church teaches what it does. The main sources used for course content are the Catechism of the Catholic Church, The Theology of the Body, Love and Responsibility, Guadium Et Spes, and Humanae Vitae.
Is it really ok as a Catholic wife to take a course on sexual pleasure?
The Catholic Church teaches that sex within marriage is good, holy, and beautiful. The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 2362) states:
“The acts in marriage by which the intimate and chaste union of the spouses takes place are noble and honorable; the truly human performance of these acts fosters the self-giving they signify, enriching the spouses in joy and gratitude.”
This means that enjoying sex, fully and freely, is part of God’s design for marriage. Cultivating desire is about embracing the fullness of the gift God has given you in marriage.
Some women worry that intentionally getting themselves in the mood is inappropriate, but there is a clear difference between preparing yourself for sex with your husband and engaging in self-focused lust.
It is not sinful to:
Take intentional steps to help your body and mind be more open to sex
Shift your mindset so that sex feels like a joy instead of an obligation
Engage in licit ways of awakening desire (such as sensory exercises, affectionate thoughts about your husband, or prayer)
It would be sinful to:
Engage in self-stimulation that leads away from the marital embrace
Rely on media or fantasy that distorts God’s design for intimacy
Treat sex as something purely for personal pleasure, rather than a shared gift in marriage
So yes, it is absolutely OK to want to want sex more. And it’s OK to seek out tools that will help you along the way.
What if I have very low desire or feel completely shut down?
You are not disqualified. Many women join feeling closed off, avoidant, or convinced that sex just is not for them. This program is designed specifically for Catholic women who do not currently enjoy sex and want that to change.
What if I have sexual shame or a complicated past?
You are welcome here. We move gently and at your pace. This program does not force disclosure or sharing personal details. If you have significant past trauma, this program can be supportive, but it does not replace individualized trauma therapy.
Does my husband need to participate?
No. This program is designed for women. Some exercises may involve communication or shared experiences with your husband, but you do not need his participation to begin this work. We always recommend that you talk with your husband about joining this program and involve him as much as he is willing and interested in it. His involvement can speed up progress and improve outcomes, but his involvement is not required to see major improvements in your sex life.
What if my husband doesn't know I'm taking this?
It is highly encouraged to share this journey with your husband. Your sex life is a shared experience and you will make the necessary changes faster if your husband is aware of what you are working on.
However, this course doesn't require your husband to participate. There is so much that can change and improve in your sex life by just you working on your mindset and understanding of the concepts in this course. It is ok if he doesn't know you are taking this, but I can guarantee you that he will notice the changes pretty quickly.
How much time does this take each week?
Plan for about 2 hours per week. This includes watching lessons, attending or replaying the group call, and practicing the exercises. You will see the biggest changes and improvements if you commit to 15-20 minutes of daily practice and study.
What if I am nervous to talk about sex in a group setting?
You are never required to share. Many women choose to listen quietly and still experience profound shifts. The group environment exists to normalize your experience, not to pressure you. You can join the group coaching sessions with an anonymous name or you can choose to only watch the replay if you feel more comfortable that way. However, many women have found that the group setting helps tremendously in realizing that others have similar experiences and that they are not alone in this journey.
Will I have access to the content after the program ends?
Yes. You receive lifetime access to the course materials so you can revisit them whenever you need.
I have pain with sex, will this program help me?
Yes, however this program is not a program to heal painful sex. It is incredibly helpful for women currently experiencing painful sex and who are receiving physical treatment through a pelvic floor specialist to take this course alongside physical therapy. Painful sex is a psychosomatic issue and often pelvic floor specialists are only treating the somatic or physical side of the problem. There is an incredible amount of mindset work that is required to fully heal painful sex and this program can support you in treating the mind part of this mind-body issue.
I'm not married yet, can I join this program?
This program is designed for married Catholic women. The topics covered are very intimate and may not be appropriate prior to marriage. If you are engaged, wait until the next round!
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